O maior conquistador não é aquele que conquista grandes coisas, mas sim o que conquista as pequenas e as torna grandes!
sábado, 12 de dezembro de 2020
sexta-feira, 11 de dezembro de 2020
WHAT IS BEAUTY?
You do not have to be thin or long-limbed.
You do not have to have long, straight, shiny hair.
You do not have to be an hourglass or a string bean or a pear.
You do not have to be blemish-free, without freckles, scars, or tattoos.
You do not have to fit or demolish certain physical paradigms
You do not have to
be buxom to be beautiful.
You do not have to possess va-va-voom curves or full lips.
You do not have to resemble a movie star, or a lingerie model, or a porn star.
You do not have to sexualize your exterior to be beautiful.
You do not have to neuter your exterior to be beautiful.
You do not have to
wear makeup to be beautiful.
You do not have to wear skirts and heels.
You do not have to cover your grays or disguise your cellulite.
You do not have to shun or accept practices of dressing or personal
presentation.
Those who quantify
beauty as genetic makeup, symmetry, mathematical ratios are, to me, as wrong as
those who accept beauty as a set of societally-imposed ideals and standards. To
rank beauty, classify it, assign it biological markers and geometric
requirements is to say to some people, “No, you cannot have this. It is not for
you.” And although many will disagree with me, I believe that beauty is a
feeling, a freedom, a pulse from within that says, “I am worthy, lovely,
strong.” And I believe every single human being has a right to feel it.
Beauty is not
definite, it is relative.
Beauty is not exclusive, it is infinite.
Beauty is not for others, it is for you.
And to be
beautiful, all you have to be is you, you, you.
Sally McGraw
quinta-feira, 10 de dezembro de 2020
The Gold Wrapping Paper - An Inspiring, Short Christmas Story
Once upon a time, there was a man who worked very hard just to keep food
on the table for his family. This particular year a few days before Christmas,
he punished his little five-year-old daughter after learning that she had used
up the family's only roll of expensive gold wrapping paper.
As money was tight, he became even more upset when on Christmas Eve he saw that
the child had used all of the expensive gold paper to decorate one shoebox she
had put under the Christmas tree. He also was concerned about where she had
gotten money to buy what was in the shoebox.
Nevertheless, the next morning the little girl, filled with excitement, brought
the gift box to her father and said, "This is for you, Daddy!"
As he opened the box, the father was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction,
now regretting how he had punished her.
But when he opened the shoebox, he found it was empty and again his anger
flared. "Don't you know, young lady," he said harshly, "when you
give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside the
package!"
The little girl looked up at him with sad tears rolling from her eyes and whispered:
"Daddy, it's not empty. I blew kisses into it until it was all full."
The father was crushed. He fell on his knees and put his arms around his
precious little girl. He begged her to forgive him for his unnecessary anger.
An accident took the life of the child only a short time later. It is told that
the father kept this little gold box by his bed for all the years of his life.
Whenever he was discouraged or faced difficult problems, he would open the box,
take out an imaginary kiss, and remember the love of this beautiful child who
had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us has been given an invisible golden box
filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, family, friends
and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
Here's a dozen of my favorite things never to apologize for:
1) Never apologize for acting on your instincts.
2) Never apologize for being passionate.
3) Never apologize for being smart.
4) Never apologize for demanding respect.
5) Never apologize for saying no.
6) Never apologize for not embracing someone else's agenda.
7) Never apologize for disagreeing.
8) Never apologize for your faith.
9) Never apologize for your own sense of creativity.
10) Never apologize for ordering dessert.
11) Never apologize for being funny.
12) Never apologize for living your truth.
Every one of us casts a shadow.
There hangs about us, a sort of a strange, indefinable something, which we call personal influence--that has its effect on every other life on which it falls. It goes with us wherever we go. It is not something we can have when we want to have it--and then lay aside when we will, as we lay aside a garment. It is something that always pours out from our lives . . . as light from a lamp, as heat from flame, as perfume from a flower.
The ministry of personal influence is something very wonderful. Without being conscious of it, we are always impressing others by this strange power that exudes from us. Others watch us--and their thinking and actions are modified by our influence."
"Be very careful, then, how you live--not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity." Ephesians 5:15-16
~J. R. Miller, "The Shadows We Cast"